Jesus you love them. Lord, let me love them too and not throw stones using harsh words and deliberate actions to condemn them. Let me love them like Christ.

Love Them like Christ and Do Not Throw Stones

Jesus you love them. Lord, let me love them too and not throw stones using harsh words and deliberate actions to condemn them. Let me love them like Christ.
Jesus you love them. Lord, let me love them too and not throw stones using harsh words and deliberate actions to condemn them. Let me love them like Christ.

Love Them like Christ and Do Not Throw Stones

Jesus you love them. Lord, let me love them too and not throw stones using harsh words and deliberate actions to condemn them. Let me love them like Christ.

Love them like Christ and do not throw stones. If you are new to mental prayer, we invite you to visit our page on the ways of mental prayer, Don’t know how to pray to God, to learn more.

We begin Day 28 of our Lenten Challenge with this opening prayer:

I want to love them like Christ. I do not want to throw stones and condemn others. I do not want to be in judgment without love or mercy or forgiveness. Jesus you love them. You tenderly come and show mercy to sinners. You offer them deliverance from sin. By your love many will respond with repentance. Through your merciful love some will go and sin no more. Lord do not let me be lacking in love for sinners. I will never know if they will one day repent. Help me control my words and actions so that I do not condemn them and throw stones when you are asking me to love them and be merciful for your sake.

Let me love them like Christ. AMEN.

Monday of the 5th Week of Lent (Liturgical Year II)

Love Them like Christ; Do Not Throw Stones

A Reflection for Prayerful Meditation

Join me in a prayerful reflection and meditation for your Lenten journey with Christ to Jerusalem. 

Love Them like Christ; Do Not Throw Stones

Opening Prayer

Enter into the prayer of silence before the Lord

Lord Jesus Christ, 

I believe you are truly here and present to me right now. I desire to be present to you. Jesus I have sinned and you have come to me with your mercy and restored my soul. Lord, I do not want to throw stones and condemn others. Speak to my heart today and show me how I might be merciful like you and forgive transgressions. It is love that draws souls to you. It is love that will forgive all transgressions. 

Help me control my words and actions so that I do not condemn others and throw stones when I feel the need to chastise. Soften my heart and give me the virtue of kindness and gentleness to love them.   

I am here, Lord, because my heart, Jesus, needs to grow in the virtues of kindness and gentleness. Please send me your Spirit so that I can become more kind and gentle so that I stop using harsh words and deliberate actions that throw stones at others. Let me love them instead.

Help me to separate myself from all worldly attachments and spend these 15 minutes with my heart and mind completely fixated on you.  Jesus, look at me with the eyes of a kind and gentle God and have pity on me. You know all my weaknesses and that I can’t be kind or gentle without your help. 

Please give me the grace right now to pray my mental prayer well and to love you in a way that is pleasing to you.  I want to grow to love you more perfectly. Thank you, Lord, for every consolation, desolation, time of silence, difficult trial, and temptation of the evil one. I understand that everything that happens in my life is by your holy will, whether it be your divine providence or your permissive will due to my sin and negligence. 

Please humble me as I walk with you toward Jerusalem. Help me carry my cross well and do so with great love in my heart for you. 

AMEN.

Say Nothing Just Take Him In

Spend 1-3 minutes in silence gazing at the Lord with love and gratitude, in a prayer of silent contemplation.

Now we will contemplate the Lord by listening to him speak to us in the Gospels. You are on the Mount of Olives. It is Autumn and you can see workers hand picking olives in this bustling, fragrant area to the immediate east of Jerusalem. You are separated from the Temple Mount by the Kidron Valley before you. The Mount of Olives is covered with dense olive groves, silver-green in color, and at the edge of the grove is a beautiful vantage point for viewing the city of Jerusalem. As you are taking in the view below you see Jesus ascending to where you are….

Love Them like Christ; Do Not Throw Stones

Throw Stones? Are you Without Sin?

John 8:1-11

Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.

But early in the morning he arrived again in the temple area, and all the people started coming to him, and he sat down and taught them. Then the scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery and made her stand in the middle.

They said to him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery. Now in the law, Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?”

They said this to test him, so that they could have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and began to write on the ground with his finger. But when they continued asking him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”

Again he bent down and wrote on the ground.

And in response, they went away one by one, beginning with the elders. So he was left alone with the woman before him. Then Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

She replied, “No one, sir.”

Then Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go, (and) from now on do not sin any more.”

Reflection:

Let us meditate on what Jesus means when he says, “Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” 

He wants us to love them, not condemn them to death.

Contemplate what it means to throw a stone. In this passage, the people intended to punish sin by causing her death. This will likely cause her to die in her sins and be permanently separated from God. Condemnation prohibits the grace needed for reconciliation. Jesus teach me to love them with mercy so that their hearts will be open to reconciliation with you.

We understand that to ‘kill’ in the eyes of God means more than just physical death. We can also kill the soul of a person by harsh condemnation and desire to punish them. We like to think our own means of justice is just. But only God can probe the mind and test the heart. Only God knows if the soul will reconcile to him when shown mercy and love through our kindness.

Do you condemn others who have sinned against you or who are sinning against you? Do you try to punish them through your words and deeds? Do you do this with anger and or even malice in your heart? Do you wish for them to suffer for their actions? Do you wish them to be condemned for their sins?

Now listen to the second part of Jesus’ merciful response, “Neither do I condemn you. Go, (and) from now on do not sin any more.” 

We see in this passage that Jesus doesn’t just offer mercy and allow the continuation of sin. He also tells her she has to stop it.

In what way does this merciful response from Jesus captivate your heart? How does merciful kindness and gentleness affect the sinner’s ability to feel remorse and to desire reconciliation with God?

Jesus is challenging you to imitate him, in thought, word, and deed. 

Take a moment to ask Jesus questions from your heart. Give the Holy Spirit time to respond. Wait on the Lord. Has he shown you something about throwing stones? You may want to write it down.

Let us continue our mental prayer with a meditation from Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska:

Love Them like Christ; Do Not Throw Stones

Always be Merciful toward People

by St. Maria Faustina Kowalska (Notebook V, 1445-1446)

In the greatest torments of soul I am always alone, but no, not alone, for I am with You, Jesus; but here I am speaking about people.

None of them understands my heart, but this does not surprise me anymore, whereas I used to be surprised when my intentions were condemned and wrongly interpreted; no, this does not surprise me now at all.

People do not know how to perceive the soul. They see the body, and they judge according to the body. But as distant as heaven is from earth, so distant are God’s thoughts from our thoughts. I myself have experienced that quite often…

The Lord said to me, “It should be of no concern to you how anyone else acts; you are to be My living reflection, through love and mercy.”

I answered, “Lord, but they often take advantage of my goodness.”

[He replied to me], “That makes no difference, My daughter. That is no concern of yours. As for you, be always merciful toward other people, and especially toward sinners.”

Reflection:

Contemplate Jesus as the source of merciful kindness and gentleness. Meditate on how merciful kindness and gentleness might open the heart of a sinner.

Think about a time in your own life when you were shamed and condemned by someone for a sin you committed against them. Consider how it hardened your heart. 

Now think about the passage from Saint Faustina Kowalska. How can you relate to her words in the way you may have been treated by others? Consider what Jesus told her in prayer. Apply this to your own situation. Take a moment to speak with Jesus….

Now consider how you may have behaved like the people she describes in this passage who judged her wrongly.

Humbly ask the Lord to forgive you for the times you have thrown stones and judged uncharitably. Think about the ways you didn’t love them and lacked both mercy or kindness. 

Take a moment to consider whether or not you need to forgive someone who has judged you and misunderstood you in the past, perhaps even condemned you for something you have done and asked forgiveness for.

Next, let us meditate for a moment on the words of Daniel 13. Listen to the story of a woman wrongly accused and how the Lord was merciful to her and answered her prayer.  Reread this passage a second time, praying the words from your own heart. Then take a moment to speak to Jesus. What do you want to tell him?

Love Them like Christ; Do Not Throw Stones

The Lord Heard Her Prayer

Daniel 13:1-9,15-27,19-30,33-62

In Babylon there lived a man named Joakim, who married a very beautiful and God-fearing woman, Susanna, the daughter of Hilkiah; her pious parents had trained their daughter according to the law of Moses.

Joakim was very rich; he had a garden near his house, and the Jews had recourse to him often because he was the most respected of them all. That year, two elders of the people were appointed judges, of whom the Lord said, “Wickedness has come out of Babylon: from the elders who were to govern the people as judges.” These men, to whom all brought their cases, frequented the house of Joakim.

When the people left at noon, Susanna used to enter her husband’s garden for a walk. When the old men saw her enter every day for her walk, they began to lust for her. They suppressed their consciences; they would not allow their eyes to look to heaven, and did not keep in mind just judgments.

One day, while they were waiting for the right moment, she entered the garden as usual, with two maids only. She decided to bathe, for the weather was warm. Nobody else was there except the two elders, who had hidden themselves and were watching her.

“Bring me oil and soap,” she said to the maids, “and shut the garden doors while I bathe.”

As soon as the maids had left, the two old men got up and hurried to her.

“Look,” they said, “the garden doors are shut, and no one can see us; give in to our desire, and lie with us. If you refuse, we will testify against you that you dismissed your maids because a young man was here with you.”

“I am completely trapped,” Susanna groaned. “If I yield, it will be my death; if I refuse, I cannot escape your power.

Yet it is better for me to fall into your power without guilt than to sin before the Lord.” Then Susanna shrieked, and the old men also shouted at her, as one of them ran to open the garden doors.

When the people in the house heard the cries from the garden, they rushed in by the side gate to see what had happened to her. At the accusations by the old men, the servants felt very much ashamed, for never had any such thing been said about Susanna.

When the people came to her husband Joakim the next day, the two wicked elders also came, fully determined to put Susanna to death. Before all the people they ordered: “Send for Susanna, the daughter of Hilkiah, the wife of Joakim.” When she was sent for, she came with her parents, children and all her relatives. All her relatives and the onlookers were weeping.

In the midst of the people the two elders rose up and laid their hands on her head. Through her tears she looked up to heaven, for she trusted in the Lord wholeheartedly.

The elders made this accusation: “As we were walking in the garden alone, this woman entered with two girls and shut the doors of the garden, dismissing the girls. A young man, who was hidden there, came and lay with her. When we, in a corner of the garden, saw this crime, we ran toward them. We saw them lying together, but the man we could not hold, because he was stronger than we; he opened the doors and ran off. Then we seized this one and asked who the young man was, but she refused to tell us. We testify to this.”

The assembly believed them, since they were elders and judges of the people, and they condemned her to death. But Susanna cried aloud: “O eternal God, you know what is hidden and are aware of all things before they come to be: you know that they have testified falsely against me. Here I am about to die, though I have done none of the things with which these wicked men have charged me.”

The Lord heard her prayer.

As she was being led to execution, God stirred up the holy spirit of a young boy named Daniel, and he cried aloud: “I will have no part in the death of this woman.”

All the people turned and asked him, “What is this you are saying?”

He stood in their midst and continued, “Are you such fools, O Israelites! To condemn a woman of Israel without examination and without clear evidence? Return to court, for they have testified falsely against her.”

Then all the people returned in haste. To Daniel the elders said, “Come, sit with us and inform us, since God has given you the prestige of old age.”

But he replied, “Separate these two far from one another that I may examine them.”

After they were separated one from the other, he called one of them and said: “How you have grown evil with age! Now have your past sins come to term: passing unjust sentences, condemning the innocent, and freeing the guilty, although the Lord says, “The innocent and the just you shall not put to death.’ Now, then, if you were a witness, tell me under what tree you saw them together.”

“Under a mastic tree,” he answered.

“Your fine lie has cost you your head,” said Daniel; “for the angel of God shall receive the sentence from him and split you in two.”

Putting him to one side, he ordered the other one to be brought. “Offspring of Canaan, not of Judah,” Daniel said to him, “beauty has seduced you, lust has subverted your conscience. This is how you acted with the daughters of Israel, and in their fear they yielded to you; but a daughter of Judah did not tolerate your wickedness. Now, then, tell me under what tree you surprised them together.”

“Under an oak,” he said. “Your fine lie has cost you also your head,” said Daniel; “for the angel of God waits with a sword to cut you in two so as to make an end of you both.”

The whole assembly cried aloud, blessing God who saves those that hope in him. They rose up against the two elders, for by their own words Daniel had convicted them of perjury. According to the law of Moses, they inflicted on them the penalty they had plotted to impose on their neighbor: they put them to death. Thus was innocent blood spared that day.

Reflection:

Contemplate Jesus bending down to write in the sand. You are in the crowd and you are watching as his finger begins to write a word.

He looks over at you and you feel he reads your soul.

He knows.

Who are you in this scene? Are you the one in the crowd holding the stone, or are you the one who is being condemned?

He knows everything about you. He has probed your mind and tested your heart. He has told you many times to “Come after me.” 

You are waiting to read the word in the sand. Your heart is pounding. Strangely you feel a gentle peace in your heart.

You look down into the sand, and what has Jesus written for you?

Take a moment to be with the Lord. Tell him what you see in the sand. Ask him to enter into this revelation and speak to your heart. Take 1-3 minutes to listen for his response to your heartfelt prayer. 

Praying for the virtue of a Merciful Heart

St. Faustina’s Mercy Prayer asks God for an increase in the virtue of a compassionate heart filled with love for our neighbor. This prayer asks the Lord to give you merciful eyes, ears, tongue, hands, feet and heart. Pray the Mercy Prayer

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Day 29 Mental Prayer Meditation

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